Job hunting is a job in itself, except it pays nothing and rejects you a lot. 😮💨 If you are feeling flat, anxious or tired while looking for your next IT role, you are completely normal. A search can take weeks or months, and the uncertainty wears on even the most confident people.
This guide shares practical habits that help IT professionals stay well while they search. It is not a substitute for professional support, and if you are struggling, please talk to your GP or a support service.
Why job hunting is so draining
- Uncertainty. You do not know how long it will take or what will happen.
- Rejection, or silence. Many applications get no reply at all.
- Loss of routine and identity. Work gives structure and a sense of who we are.
- Money worries. Especially if your runway is short.
- Isolation. Searching alone at a laptop all day is lonely.
Naming these pressures helps. They are real, and they are not a sign that something is wrong with you.
Build a routine that protects you
- Set working hours for the search. For example, 9 to 1 for applications, networking and interview prep. Then stop.
- Mix in learning and movement. An afternoon course module or a walk does wonders for your mood.
- Get out of the house daily, even if it is just for a coffee or a walk around the block.
- Keep normal sleep times. It is tempting to drift, but routine helps your head.
- Limit doom-scrolling of layoff news and job market commentary.
Reframe rejection
Most rejections are about fit, timing, budget or an internal candidate. They are not a score of your value. A few helpful habits:
- Ask for feedback once you reach interview stage, use what is useful and let the rest go
- Remember that recruiters and hiring managers often have dozens of applicants for one role
- Track your activity rather than outcomes, because activity is what you control
- Talk to others in the same situation. You will hear the same stories
Stay connected
Meetups, former colleagues, online communities and industry events keep you confident and often lead to roles that are never advertised. Even one coffee a week makes a difference. Our networking guide shows who to contact first.
Celebrate small wins
A recruiter call. A first-round interview. A certification module finished. A great conversation with an old manager. Progress is progress, and noticing it keeps you going. 🎉
Look after your body
- Move every day, even for 20 minutes
- Eat regular meals
- Limit alcohol, which can make low moods worse
- Spend time outside
Money stress
Financial worry is one of the biggest sources of stress during a search. Write down your runway, talk to your lender early if repayments are a concern, and check whether you are eligible for any government support. Knowing the real numbers is usually less frightening than vague worry.
A real-world example
A senior developer we worked with spent six weeks applying to everything late at night and getting nowhere. He felt exhausted and discouraged. When he switched to a structured routine, with mornings for focused applications and two coffees a week with former colleagues, his interviews increased and his mood lifted. One of those coffees led to his next role, which was never advertised.
Ask for help
If stress or low mood is sticking around, affecting your sleep, appetite or relationships, please talk to your GP. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or Lifeline on 13 11 14, any time. If your former employer offered an Employee Assistance Program, you may still be able to use it for a period. You do not have to do this alone.
Wellbeing checklist
- Daily routine with set search hours
- Movement every day
- One social or networking contact each week
- A list of small wins
- A clear view of your finances
- A plan for who to talk to if things get hard
Supporting a partner or friend who is job hunting
If someone close to you has been laid off, the most helpful things are often simple: listen without rushing to fix, avoid asking “any luck?” every day, offer practical help like reviewing a CV or making an introduction, and invite them out so they do not become isolated. Encourage professional support if they seem to be struggling.
Frequently asked questions
Is it normal to feel depressed while job hunting?
Feeling low, anxious or frustrated is common. If it persists or affects daily life, talk to your GP or a support service such as Beyond Blue or Lifeline.
How many hours a day should I spend job hunting?
Quality matters more than hours. Three to five focused hours a day, plus learning and networking, works well for many people.
How do I deal with no replies to applications?
Focus on activity you control, tailor applications, use your network and work with a few trusted recruiters.
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